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Why Do Intrusive Thoughts Feel So Real

By Dr. Ori Shinar

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Have you ever experienced a thought so intrusive that it felt real and hard to shake?

Unwanted, repetitive thoughts can be difficult to manage.

But understanding the why behind them can help.

This article explores the reasons why intrusive thoughts feel so real and how to cope with them.

It’s important to remember that these thoughts are not your fault.

They are normal experiences shared by many people.

With treatment and support, intrusive thoughts can become more manageable.

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Intrusive Thoughts

Intrusive thoughts are a common experience for many people.

So there is certainly no need to feel like you are suffering alone.

But they can be particularly distressing for those who also suffer from anxiety disorders.

These thoughts can come in the form of sudden, unwanted images or ideas that disrupt everyday life and cause significant emotional turmoil.

One of the most perplexing aspects of intrusive thoughts is how real they feel, even though they often have no basis in reality.

So why do these intrusive thoughts feel so real?

There are a few different factors at play here.

For one thing, our brains tend to assign greater weight and significance to negative experiences than positive ones.

This means that when we have a disturbing thought, our brain might automatically interpret it as being more important or relevant than other types of thoughts.

Additionally, the physical sensations associated with anxiety can make these intrusive thoughts feel even more intense and overwhelming.

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Definition of Intrusive Thoughts

Intrusive thoughts are unwanted ideas, images or impulses that pop up in a person’s mind repeatedly and uncontrollably.

These thoughts can be disturbing, distressing and sometimes even terrifying, leaving people questioning their own sanity.

Intrusive thoughts can range from the mundane to the bizarre.

And they often target areas of our lives that we care about deeply.

One of the reasons why intrusive thoughts feel so real is because they are often accompanied by physical sensations such as anxiety, nausea or panic attacks.

These bodily reactions can make people believe that their fears or worries are true…

And that can lead them to act out in ways that are harmful to themselves or others.

Furthermore, intrusive thoughts tend to be persistent and difficult to ignore.

They can interfere with a person’s ability to concentrate on daily tasks or lead to social isolation due to feelings of shame or embarrassment.

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Causes of Intrusive Thoughts

Intrusive thoughts are sudden, unwanted and often disturbing.

They come without warning and they feel so real.

And that makes it hard for people to ignore them.

These intrusive thoughts can be caused by various factors.

Such factors could range from mental health conditions such as depression, anxiety or OCD to everyday life worries.

One of the reasons why intrusive thoughts feel so real is because they engage our senses.

The mind creates realistic scenarios that play out in our head making us believe in their reality.

These scenarios may involve a loved one getting hurt or even ourselves being involved in an accident.

Oftentimes, these scenarios are a result of past experiences or traumas which left a lasting impression on us.

Another reason why intrusive thoughts feel so real is due to the brain’s evolution over time.

Our ancestors had to constantly be alert and aware of their surroundings for survival purposes.

Because of that, our brains naturally tend to focus on potential threats rather than on positive things.

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Effects of Intrusive Thoughts

Intrusive thoughts can be debilitating and exhausting.

They are the kind of thoughts that seemingly come out of nowhere and often involve harm, violence, or disaster.

These thoughts can feel extremely real and cause anxiety or even panic attacks.

But why do they feel so real?

Intrusive thoughts are often associated with anxiety disorders such as obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD).

These types of thoughts can become more frequent when a person is feeling stressed or anxious.

The reason they feel so real is that the brain has difficulty distinguishing between imagination and reality.

When we have intrusive thoughts, our brains react as if the threat is actually happening in front of us.

Furthermore, these kinds of intrusive images tend to stick in our minds because they evoke strong emotions like fear or disgust.

This makes them difficult to ignore or dismiss.

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Strategies to Reduce Intrusions

Intrusive thoughts can be incredibly distressing and difficult to manage.

They can arise suddenly, causing intense anxiety and fear, and often feel very real.

But why do these thoughts feel so vivid and convincing?

One reason is that our brains are wired to focus on potential threats or dangers.

This means that when we experience an intrusive thought, it can trigger a strong emotional response because our brain perceives it as a potential danger.

Additionally, the more we ruminate on these thoughts or try to suppress them, the stronger they become.

Fortunately, there are strategies that can help reduce the impact of intrusive thoughts.

One approach is mindfulness meditation which involves focusing on the present moment without judgment or attachment to thoughts or feelings.

Another strategy is cognitive-behavioral therapy which aims to challenge negative thought patterns and replace them with more positive ones.

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Professional Help for Severe Cases

Intrusive thoughts can be a sign of an underlying mental health condition such as obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD).

These thoughts can be so vivid and intense that they feel like real experiences.

They often involve disturbing imagery or unwanted impulses that cause significant distress to the person experiencing them.

The reason why intrusive thoughts feel so real is because they activate the same neural pathways in the brain as actual experiences.

This makes it difficult for individuals with severe cases to differentiate between reality and their own thoughts.

And that can lead to heightened anxiety and a decreased quality of life.

Seeking professional help is essential for those struggling with severe cases of intrusive thoughts.

A trained therapist can work with individuals to identify triggers, develop coping strategies, and learn techniques for managing these intrusive thoughts.

In some cases, medication may also be recommended to help manage symptoms.

But we usually recommend against medication unless there is some other underlying condition like schizophrenia.

In most cases, mental health problems can be worked through either without medication or with only very temporary use of it.

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Addressing Intrusions

Intrusive thoughts can be a difficult and distressing experience for many.

It is important to remember that these unwanted thoughts are a normal part of being human.

And they do not reflect our character or our future actions.

Taking time to understand the source of these thoughts can help us gain perspective on them.

And that can enable us to recognize their powerlessness over us.

Seeking professional help can also be beneficial if intrusive thoughts become too overwhelming.

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Are you ready to start living fully?

To learn more about individual therapy schedule your FREE 15-minute consultation and we’ll help determine if our services are a good fit for you.

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